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You fall into bed and there's no actual tripping over your socks and then everything is like one, two, three and the woman has an orgasm lying on her back with a man thrusting on top of her.
That happens to maybe 25 percent of women, right? That is a fantastic statistic. So sex requires thought. Sex requires planning.
Sex requires the kind of attention that we don't always necessarily give it, because it feels like if I'm thinking about it, I shouldn't be. I work with so many couples who are so busy, so over-scheduled.
They made time to come and see me for 60 or 90 minutes, but when it comes to actually making time to have sex they recoil at the notion. No, sex should be spontaneous. I hate the word "spontaneous" when it comes to sex, because as you said, we see the rom-com.
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It sometimes is for people in new relationships versus being in long-term relationships. But how do we thoughtfully create an environment in which we can allow ourselves to be aroused? Go into wnt own bodies? Get out of our own heads? Remove all the stressors and inhibitors, and somehow engage the exciters? That does take a little bit of collaboration. It does take a little bit of planning.
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One of the best things I ever heard a sex expert say is, "What is dating, but scheduled sex? That's sexy. That's actually not like, "OK, I have to take out the recycling.
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todqy I see guys in their 20s, guys in their 30s, who are beset with a kind of anxiety around sex that has gotten inside them like a virus. Some of that we think may be attributable to antidepressants, which doctors often do not really talk seriously to adolescents about.
Sex gets demoted in any conversation. If you're going to see a psychiatrist for your well-being, your mental health, forget the sex.
That's a side effect, you'll deal with that. If you're going for prostate surgery, we may not be able to spare all the nerves and you hosg have a permanent loss of erectile capacity but we gotta get in there and do that. Sex is demoted in almost every conversation.
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But when it actually comes to the interactions that we're having with teachers, with educators, with our parents, with healthcare practitioners, sex is either not verbalized at all, or it's demoted. Or it's expendable. If the side effects of something mean decreased libido, we may not even talk about it.
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I get that this has a history. I know I'm attractive. I know this isn't about me or my self-esteem, but why isn't he just walking up to me with a boner when I come out of the shower?
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